Decorating Diaries--Tile Today???

Oh boy, everybody cross your fingers and say a prayer.  Word on the street is the tile people are coming TODAY. That's right, there is the chance that I may wake up tomorrow morning with a tile floor in my master bathroom. 

They told my general contractor they would be here this morning so I called at 9 AM to firm out a time.  That's when they said (and really, couldn't you have predicted it by this point?) that they might not be able to make it out until the afternoon.  Fine, except for one thing.  I won't BE HERE this afternoon and my General Contractor is at another job.

So after some phone calls, it has been decided that tile guy will try with all his might to get here before 1pm when I leave, but if he can't make it, he will absolutely be here in the morning.  

I'll keep you updated... 

I'm Better Now

After being late yesterday morning to Triad Networks, I just could not let go of it.  I was jittery and distracted as I started my writing session with friends Bernie and Claudette.  "I am always on time--early--for everything," I told them.  "I can't stand people who are late and I don't like being thought of as one of those people."

"Well," said Bernie kindly (because, God love her, she feels the same way about being on time as I do), "Then maybe this is the Universe's way of telling you not to be so judgemental of other people and their time issues.  You never know what the reason is for someone being late."

Oddly, I felt much better after she said that and was able to concentrate on my work.  Turned into a fantastic writing session for me where I churned out close to 8 pages of handwritten work.  Then I nailed my Toastmasters speech, which heightened my mood.  

The rest of the day was up and down as some of my appointments were wonderful (and on time--<grin>), while others forgot I was coming, or couldn't meet with me.  So it was a day of highs and lows.

Turned into a loooong work day.  I left the house at 6:50 AM yesterday and finally dragged myself away from the computer at 9pm saying, "Enough."  Today is swamped too, but the highlight is I'm meeting my friend Melody at her house for dinner at 5, and we're doing at least an hour's worth of knitting--my first lesson.  I have no business taking two hours off with the work I have piling up, and that's exactly why I'm doing it.  Trying to bring some balance back to life. 

Crappy Start to the Day

My Day of Accomplishment has started on a sour note.  This morning was my first meeting at my Triad Networking group. I knew the meeting time was 7:15, but I thought I remembered the first 15 minutes were coffee and chit-chat and the actual meeting started at 7:30. 

I was on time leaving the house, but had to go back when I was 5 minutes down the road because I realized I'd forgotten my Toastmaster manual, and since I'm giving a speech today, that's a necessity.  So I pulled into the parking lot for the Networking group at 7:27 and thought "Yes, I just made it."

Then as I'm opening the door I realize the meeting has already started.  And the way the room is set up, everyone faces the front door, so 40 pairs of eyes are noting my late entry AND I have to walk almost directly in front of the woman speaking to get to a seat.

Turns out the meeting starts at 7:20.  If I'd known that, I would have just skipped the meeting today.  It was a horrible way to introduce myself as a potential new member--"Hi, I'm 10 minutes late and have no regard for your groups schedule." 

A small event in the overall scheme of life, but a crappy, crappy start to the day.

Mens Bathrooms & The Dangers of Being Distracted

Perhaps I am working too hard.  Yesterday after finishing some interviews, I sat down with a cup of coffee in a local Panera store to write up my notes.  When I was finished, I packed up my stuff and hit the ladies room before I left. I have been in this Panera store a thousand times, so I was surprised when I walked into the ladies room and thought: "Hey, there used to be 3 stalls in here. Why are there now only two?  And when did they add that urinal...?"

 Of course the next thought that went flying through my mind was "S***!" and I hightailed it out of there.  Thank God no one was in there or it could have been really  embarrassing.  As it was, there was a group of people seated near the bathrooms who I'm pretty sure saw my blunder, but hard to tell as I avoided direct eye contact with them when I left.

Moving on to more pleasant topics, last night I attended a Martin Luther King Jr. celebration at UNCG with civil rights activist Angela Davis as the keynote speaker.  In a word, she was brilliant.  I wish I had brought pen and paper to take notes.  She challenged the notion that racism in our country has improved or receded.  "Just because blatant racist laws are taken off the books (I'm paraphrasing) doesn't mean racism still isn't practiced," she said.  The problem, as she sees it, is no one wants to admit racism is still as rampant as it is, which makes addressing any aspect of it that much more daunting. 

She spent a good amount of time talking about Katrina and guarding ourselves against media manipulation. For example, that poor black people who took diapers and water from stores were called "looters," and white people who did the same were "foraging for necessities."  She also implored we not follow the medias lead and consider Katrina related stories old news, but to keep the people still affected in the forefront of our minds.

She is also strongly anti-Bush, which earns her bonus points in my book.  I live for the day we get that man out of office.

There were a few things in her talk I didn't agree with or I thought were over simplification of the facts, but for the most part I found myself moved and inspired. And shamed by how small I keep my world.  In her 75-minute speech she touched on the U.S., Bolivia, Cuba, Vietnam, Africa, and more.   I couldn't even follow half the examples she used from current news.  But I do a poor job of keeping current.

If any of you ever have the opportunity to hear Ms. Davis speak, I'd recommend her.  Whether you agree with her or not, she is passionate in her beliefs and morals and will give you food for thought.